How important are shared political beliefs?

This week President Obama was voted in by the Americans for a second term in office. Popular opinion was divided and many thought the republican candidate Mitt Romney was going to clinch the deal. Social networking websites were awash with political passion from every corner of the globe and you couldn’t switch on the news without hearing the arguments from each side.

But how important are shared political opinions in a relationship? Whilst some would argue a little difference of opinion is healthy, others wouldn’t consider dating someone who voted for a different political party. So what should you do if you and your partner are polar opposites?

Find common ground
It’s fine to argue, but you need to share some common ground. If you’re both politically passionate try to find at least a few things you agree on, otherwise you might be headed for World War 3. Whether you support a right wing, left wing or Monster Raving Loony party, there’s always some degree of overlap and most people can find something to agree on. If there’s really no topic you can approach without a heated row, you may be too far opposed for romantic compatibility.

Don’t take it too seriously
If you’re the kind of person that easily accepts the opinions of others, you should have no problems dating someone with a different political ideology. In fact, making fun of each other and joking about your views can make for a happy and healthy partnership. But if you’re the kind of girl who can’t let an argument go or always needs to be right, it might be wise to wait for a man who you’ve got more in common with.

Agree to disagree
If you’re dating a man with totally different politics, the chances of him ‘changing’ are pretty slim. You can give it a whirl, but don’t be disappointed when it backfires in your face. If you can truly say you love your man enough to put aside his opinions, the best solution is to agree to disagree. You know there won’t be a winner when you start debating, so just leave the discussion out and change the topic of conversation.

Try to understand his perspective
Everyone’s beliefs are shaped by their own personal life experiences. Instead of spitting venom, try finding out why your partner feels the way they do about certain issues. Whether it’s his upbringing, his job or an event during childhood, there’s always a reason behind what makes people tick. You never know, if you approach it with an open mind and try not to judge, he may surprise you